I often get asked if I'm Amish. When I say no, people almost always guess Mennonite. A guy snapped a picture of some of my friends (the one above) and posted it on
Flickr, thinking they were Amish, then Mennonite.Very few know about conservative Brethren, and even fewer people have heard of the River Brethren. When we had to look up a topic on Wikipedia to check the accuracy of something we're knowledgeable about, I was surprised to find an entry about
me. Okay, so not exclusively about me, but about my family.
Do I mind being associated with the Amish and Mennonites? Not at all. We value many of the same things, biblical principles--simplicity, honesty, hard work, integrity, modesty,... Yet, I really appreciate my heritage and my congregation, despite its smaller numbers and less publicity. Maybe because of its smaller numbers and less publicity.
So what are River Brethren? We don't have TV. We don't divorce and remarry. We dress uniformly. We don't smoke. We don't drink excessively. We save sex for marriage. We avoid extravagance in cars, vacations, decorations, etc.
More importantly, we follow Christ. We take the Bible literally. Why do I wear this hat on my head? See
I Corinthians 11. We practice
nonresistance. We do not have a church building, emphasizing that the church is people, not a place. We support each other financially, spiritually, emotionally, and so on. Every Sunday the first part of our service is devoted to hearing from anyone who wants to share prayer requests, praises, and experiences. We are a tight-knit group, like a big family.